This is website about narcissism and narcissistic abuse.
These are two bizarre, and sometimes terrifying subjects. Strongly connected of course, and both very much not understood by the majority of people, unfortunately including Law Enforcement and Justice.
So these subjects need attention. And I thought it would be a good idea to combine them, as they are so closely related. It also gives us a chance to look at the abuse subject from two perspectives, the abused and the abuser, hopefully getting more insight in how things can lead to
such energie draining, hurtful, destructive, violent or even lethal relationships.
Because one thing is for sure. Like some other websites and specialists, I do believe that there are only losers in this game. But opposed to one of them, I believe that both parties are human.
You can navigate through this site using the menu in the upper right corner. In spite of the subject, I say: enjoy !
“No one on earth would have put it as well as you did. You’re brilliant. Thank you so much for your time and advice. You helped me and you don’t even know me. I really appreciate it. Thank you!!! Ganesha blesses you 🙂”
Janhavi, Mumbai, India
“Once again, thank you for all your insight. It is super valuable. Once again, I’m just trying to wrap my brain around some of this stuff and it’s hard when you don’t come from a place even remotely like that in your own heart and mind. I have a lot of respect for the fact that you are attempting to make such great a change to figure things out for yourself and share those insights with others. It’s been tremendously helpful. It is as if you speak a language that no one else knows how to speak but when one is desperate for interpretation there is valuable insight to be given. Thank you.”
M.B. Athens, Georgia, USA (name undisclosed for privacy reasons)
Kyung, California, USA.
Kimmy, undisclosed for privacy reasons, USA.
I am a survivor of 21 years of narcissistic abuse and had been abruptly “discarded” I was in shock and as is typical of the discard phase I had questions and no chance of receiving closure of any kind it was maddening and painful beyond my ability to describe the last place I would have thought to find some peace would be talking with a narcissist . but that’s what happened something about hearing the words my N will never say gave me a measure of relief and closure. Ruud was real about the disorder and didn’t dodge hard questions and that made the insanity easier to bear and most importantly I hurt less in a way that really mattered.
Kress Haynes, USA